4 Things to Remember When You Get Into A Lovers’ Fight While On Romantic Getaways
Couple trips are fun and romantic getaways that both you and your significant other will never forget! They are among the best moments spent with each other, the most beautiful days together. Just imagine how busy you have been individually! Your couple trips are one of the ways to catch up and make it up to those times when you were both busy as bees. They are definitely to be planned very well and enjoyed to the fullest!
For real, that’s what couple trips are supposed to be. However, as if it’s a requirement, it’s almost inevitable for many couples to have disagreements that cause fights during the trip. Right? If you have experienced traveling with your lover, I’m pretty sure there are a few moments when you get upset. Some are due to somewhat-little things, like missing the train because the other is so slow or getting stuck in traffic because of the wrong route choice. Meanwhile, some are for not-so-little things including matters that couples must not talk about during trips, like past quarrels and money. Nonetheless, they all spoil the splendor of your romantic getaways.
Well, having arguments is generally normal for couples since there are misunderstandings that sometimes happen and differences that exist between you. Talking about them with each other is a must to let your emotions out and to solve whatever the problem and the root of it is. However, as couples, you should also know that there’s a right time and place to express your emotions and to bicker or something like that, and it’s not during your trips.
Clear your head. Think straight. Inhale, and exhale. Here are 4 things to remember when you get into a lovers’ fight while on romantic getaways. Let your partner know about these too!
1 – Do not make a fight scene in public.
Third-wheelers or those friends who hang out with their couple friends know how awkward it is when the couple starts to fight while they are stuck in the middle or beside them. For some reason, it feels so embarrassing.
When you and your lover are beginning to disagree with each other and subtly backtalk each other while traveling, that is a bad signal that both or one of you might forget that there are people around. Emotions make you out of your mind for a moment sometimes. Because of what you feel, you don’t really care about who’s around and who sees you.
Be careful of this. Do not make a fight scene in public. Well, not really a fight scene as in an action movie, but as in a lovers’ fight scene, where you’re being scandalous, and strangers are judgmentally looking at you. This happens in dramas, and something like this happens in real life as well.
You do not need everyone to know, see and hear that you and your boyfriend or girlfriend are currently arguing. It’s disturbing others. It’s embarrassing for you. Before your overwhelming emotions get a hold of you, go move somewhere else where it’s just you two. Talk in private instead. Go back to your hotel room, or sit on a bench where there’s no people around. Collect yourself, and speak with each other. Fix what’s wrong before you continue your trip.
Make it unforgettable with fine memories and not with a couple’s fight scene in public!
2 – Solve your argument right there and then.
It has been slightly touched by the previous point, but to put more emphasis on it, here. Solve your argument right there and then. Solve the issue the moment it arises. Do not wait for your disagreement to grow bigger and to destroy your romantic getaways even more! You will have a hard time sincerely enjoying the rest of your travel itineraries if you don’t peacefully settle things together. You might end up wanting to go home instead, and that’s just sad.
3 – Your romantic getaways are supposed to be fun and meaningful.
Get back on track. Your head and/or your lover’s head might be heated because of your fights during your trip, but hey, come back to your senses. Your romantic getaways are supposed to be fun and meaningful.
Both of you have been waiting for this precious vacation and relaxation. It is a great opportunity to bond and appreciate each other’s presence. You cannot obtain wonderful experiences and memories like these anywhere else. It is a time to know more about each other and also to talk about your hopes and dreams together, to reflect on life and to just be there for each other in such a serene setting.
Adventurous couple trips are super exhilarating and even more terrific because you are with the person you love. Experience new activities, and discover more about each other’s strengths and weaknesses through daring travel adventures. Who said romantic getaways can’t be hair-raising?! They can be!
There’s no space for lengthy arguments during such energizing couple trips that also require your camaraderie! Remember this because this is the goal of your romantic getaways.
4 – Fighting during your trip is a luxurious waste of money.
You can actually have a lovers’ fight anytime (though no one recommends fights at all), but why choose your romantic getaways?! Come on, fighting during your trip is a luxurious waste of money! It sounds like a joke, but it’s also true. You are not simply wasting your good mood and your golden time when you fight while traveling. You are also wasting the money you have spent for the whole trip! You know it’s not cheap! That thought alone is regretful. Patch things up in no time, so you can get the most out of your romantic getaways!
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GET THE FIGHT AWAY!
See! Fighting during your trips will not do anything nice, really. Your precious time is not worthy of such bickerings or silent quarrels. Enjoy your couple trips! You have prepared for them wholeheartedly, doing all your best for it to be the best day yet, so don’t let those misunderstandings and disputes ruin everything! Calmly talk things out. You do not have to publicize your lovers’ fights. While you’re in your hotel or in a vast relaxing park, reconcile already, so you could totally appreciate your trip, feeling light and good as you should!
Get the fight away from your romantic getaways!
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ABOUT THE AUTHOR:
Nicole Ann Pore is a writer, an events host and a voice over artist. Quality and well-researched writing is her worthwhile avenue to enlighten and delight others about things that matter. She is a daytime writer for Kims, a beachside retreat in Australia offering awesome beachside lodges like no other. Nicole graduated Cum Laude from De La Salle University Manila, Philippines with a Bachelor’s Degree in Communication Arts.
